Valerie Smith grew up in a household marked by abuse, neglect, and instability, leading to years of struggle with complex PTSD. Through therapy, mindfulness, and her connection with nature, she found healing and resilience, ultimately transforming her pain into purpose as a psychotherapist and ecotherapy guide. In this article, Valerie shares her journey and the insights that now shape her work with clients facing trauma and recovery.

I used to think I was broken—too sensitive, too emotional, too reactive, too much, or not enough. But the truth is, I wasn't hurt; I was grieving. And not the kind of grief that earns sympathy cards. I wasn't mourning someone who passed away; I was grieving someone who was right in front of me—my mom.

Trauma is not merely an event that fades with time; it etches itself into the very fabric of our being, demanding acknowledgment and resolution. Though my experience happened in 2017, it took me four years to give the pain the acceptance and acknowledgment it needed. I got a text from someone wishing me "Happy Mother's Day," and it broke me four years later. It was at that point that I realized that our body keeps the score of every experience we go through.