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The Payoff of Playing the Victim As An Identity
Real victimization exists, and Diane Russell Chrestman does not minimize that truth. But in this candid reflection, she explores what can happen when suffering becomes an identity. Using lived experience, ACE awareness, and Internal Family Systems language, she examines the victim role as a protector, the relief it can offer, and the courage it takes to build a life beyond the worst things that happened to us.
Diane Russell Chrestman
May 304 min read


From the Bully to the Bullied: A Personal Reflection from The Counselor's Point of View
“Sticks and stones” was never the whole truth. In this Author of the Month reflection, Joshua Bennett-Johnson looks back on childhood bullying from both sides: the child who used cruelty to feel bigger, and the child who later felt the sting of public humiliation. The result is a candid, human essay about shame, empathy, repair, and why words can leave wounds long after the moment passes.
Joshua Bennett-Johnson
May 217 min read


Sometimes My Clients Get Angry At Me, And Why That's Such A Good Thing in Therapy
Author of the Month Joshua Bennett-Johnson writes that real therapy is not always soft, calm, or comfortable. Sometimes the deepest breakthroughs happen when things become emotionally difficult.
Joshua Bennett-Johnson
May 145 min read


It Didn't End When It Ended: The Lasting Impact of Bullying — and What Begins to Heal It
Bullying doesn’t end when it ends—it follows you even into adulthood. Author and therapist Lisa Cavallaro writes about how bullying can become deeply tied to mental health.
Lisa Cavallaro
May 83 min read


Trauma and Addictions: To be Anonymous or Not?
Author and counselor Tim Lineaweaver explores the conflict he felt between opening up about his trauma and addiction and remaining anonymous.
Tim Lineaweaver
Apr 255 min read


Can You Still Be Miserable After Overcoming Addiction?
Abstinence is only the beginning of recovery. You can quit substances and still feel stuck. Author Michael Cline writes about the next step in your recovery after overcoming addiction.
Michael Cline
Apr 254 min read


The Allure of Ayahuasca: Is it helpful for those in alcohol or drug recovery?
Ayahuasca ceremonies are gaining attention as a potential path for trauma healing and addiction recovery
Michael Cline
Mar 145 min read


Sobriety Without Healing: Why Abstinence Falls Short
Michael Cline shares his journey from heroin addiction to long-term abstinence — and the realization that sobriety alone did not heal his trauma.
Michael Cline
Mar 76 min read


Inner Rage Became the Catalyst for Escape, Growth, and Healing.
A raw account of trauma and nervous system collapse—and the slow, courageous return to safety.
Heline Freea
Jan 210 min read


My Life as an Addict in NYC: A Drug Memoir
A vivid memoir of heroin addiction in 1980s–90s NYC—trauma, street culture, near-death experiences, and the seed of hope that led to recovery.
Michael Cline
Dec 14, 20255 min read


To Forge A New Path: You Must Be Willing to Walk Alone at Times.
A deep reflective piece on walking alone, self-healing, creativity, and reclaiming inner resilience after trauma.
Heline Freea
Dec 13, 20258 min read


Wounds That Don't Heal: The Dirty Truth About Generational Trauma
An unfiltered exploration of generational trauma, showing how pain, secrecy, and survival patterns are passed down quietly through families.
Belinda Morey
Dec 5, 20259 min read
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